my husband has chemo / plus auto immune treatment all failed him now got terimal may be few months to live we ask she said maybe see xmas maybe not i feel so torn and lost but i cut food up make all drinks his hands are twisted we dont know why he has

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iwe were only told at last appointment with the cancer hospital i don't recall  can thing she said all i remember I'm sorry its failed when 12 weeks ago their was nought there for him to go back on auto plan you have to be under 12 weeks which they by time got mri over 3 months wait was to late and so terminal now ask how long he joked xmas she shrug her head i couldn't take it walked out since than we seen district nurse every week but its never the same person tues we got hospice nurse visiting st cathine's thing is he got these lumps some at base of his neck some at side of chest few down the spine no one seams to tell us what they are we know their cancer lumps that's all and one two are very red and painful but all i got told was soda cream on huh well its  not a sting or bite  but very painful for him i did recall if protrude out through skin you could have rabdology on them im feel helpless like small things his toe nails need done dont ask cannot do im pay for him to be shaved at barbers we live on his pension and caear allowance and attandance allowance we dont get uvcredit so what pays out is mine privite money savings do they get they toe nails for free and how 

  • Dear onos, I’ve been where you are and I’m sending you a huge hug. I know it won’t really help. I can’t give any advice as my husband was diagnosed and died in France, so it’s not the same system. Stay posting on here. You will get advice and even more importantly you’ll have people who really do understand what you’re going through.

    Daisy x