Hi all, I care for my mum, just me, it’s always been just mum and I. My hubby n kids are great but mum and I are close. She has had 4 years of chemo n meds. I have taken her to her hospital appointments stayed with her through chemo. This time chemo hasn’t worked, infact the last few months she has got weaker, and it’s fairly aggressive. I realised today that I’m not coping very well. Mum has said no more, she has had enough, she dosnt have a good day anymore, her quality of life is pretty awful. Pain, nausea, fatigue. She said she just wants a nice few months. I took her to Wales last week, it rained the whole time, I realised how weak she was and also how hard it is to navigate hilly Wales in a wheelchair 
anyway just wanted to share as sometimes it’s good to get it off your chest!!
