Mum doesn't want to know anything

Hi Dinglyd, my dad is much the same, he always drummed it in to me and specified it on his poa, that he doesnt want treatment, tests, interventions of any sort. He is older than your mum at 91, but hes been like that for years. I try to get him to go to the dr as he does have some  problems but he just wont. Its hard, but even if he knew, for example, that he had xyz, he would not want anything. 

I will only involve anyone when hes not managing and becomes unsafe. Or he changes his mind. Its hard though isnt it?

Hello Malengwa,

Thank you so much for your reply, much appreciate it. Yes, it's very hard as we want the best for them. But at the same time we respect their wishes. 

I hope you're dad stays comfortable, I'm sure with your love and respect he will be happy. 

Take care.

Del