Hi, my 90 year old dad has terminal lung cancer and I don't think it will be long before he goes. My mum, who's 81, is trying her best to cope but is understandably tired and stressed out. Dad's getting more forgetful and unsteady on his feet, and is sometimes rude and aggressive towards people.
I don't know what to do to help more - I'm stuck in the middle trying to support both parents, trying to keep the peace. I don't know whether mum's entitled to more help, or whether dad should be in hospital. Is anyone else in this position or does anyone have any advice?
