Delay in death certificate

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As I mentioned in an earlier post,  my dad died on Sunday in hospital.  I'm still waiting for his cause of death/death certificate,  so I can start making arrangements.  The Bereavement Office has apologised for the delay,  citing busy doctors,  which I don't doubt. But this delay is causing me even more distress. I can't bear the thought of dad in a fridge at the hospital. He was always claustrophobic. I'm also worried that the delay will mean dad has deteriorated too much for me too see him once he's in the funeral home. This is all really troubling me, on top of my grief. I wondered whether anyone has had a similar experience,  or words of advice,  please.

  • Hi Diane,

    No advice but just to share;

    My darling husband passed away in a hotel room away from home (he was to start a trial drug + chemo later that morning).

    Because of that the police and coroner were involved, no question of cause, just location.

    It took 4 days for him to come back home to where we live. 
    Then another day before I could see him. 
    I had the same concerns as you ; He hates the cold and dark. How will he look. He wouldn’t want to be alone.

    I didn’t need to worry.
    He looks the healthiest he has for at least a month. And so peaceful.

    While I waited for the certificate I got everything prepared ready. 
    National Insurance number. Bank account details. Funeral plans etc 

    I hope everything is sorted for you now.

  • Thank you so much for your reply.  I'm so sorry about your husband,  my sincere condolences to you and your family. 

    I'm still waiting for the certificate , but surely it will come next week.. I'm really struggling.