I just spent the day in an oncology assessment unit with my husband who told nurses and practitioners that he understood what they were saying and what he had to do. He’s stage 4 and has just started on a new chemo regime. He’s had no appetite and was getting progressively more weak and sleeping most of the day. In the hospital he was bright and jokey. As soon as we got home he refused to eat. I just wanted to follow the little and often approach and have a fridge full of treats. But he refused point blank to eat or even try to eat anything. He’s just taken himself off to bed. He was told if he doesn’t eat he will get weaker and then the less activity he has he won’t want to eat so much. What should I do? I feel so hopeless and yes to be honest really really angry
