My husband has lung cancer with tumors in both lungs, his spine and pelvis and also in lymph nodes and adrenal glands. It's stage 4, not operable no treatment 4-6 months (that was a month ago). He is getting so confused and is hallucinating, he wants to open spam emails, transfer money from club accounts (that he still has access to). And the next min he's asleep or he's forgotten how to take and swallow tablets. I just don't know how to handle what is happening to him, I want to help make his last months pain free and good for both of us but I can see that's not going to happen. He thinks I wont to control him if I ask him to drink up his protein shakes ,cos he's been nursing it for 30+ min, or remind him of something we were talking about earlier. It's so frustrating, and I'm so emotionally drained.
