Hi everyone, after finding a lump last month, my mum has gone through many tests, yesterday we were told the lump on her collarbone is metastatic cancer meaning its spread to the lymph nodes but they don't know where the primary cancer is. She is getting a pet scan, but I want to know if anyone has went through this, does it mean the cancer is incurable as its metastatic? We are both terrified and the waiting for more tests and results especially over Xmas is torture, she keeps apologising for ruining Xmas, only I know, we have decided not to tell the family until after Xmas so they aren't as heartbroken as us, as the have small children they need to make their christmas a happy one, any advice greatly appreciated
