Feeling selfish

Oh my days …the times I’ve been woken in the night …it’s horrendous…caring for someone is the hardest job known to man , then we feel selfish because we’re not the ones that are ill …there’s always someone on these chats going through what we’re going through and it’s good to know that we’re not alone in how we’re feeling …rant away …we’re all here for each other xxx

Thanks for your reply. It does help me feel less isolated. I’m hoping that you’re able to get your life back on track now after your updates.

I think …as Mike the highlander says…it’s the head space that plays the worse game …you can buy the ticket for the train …just don’t get on it xx

So sorry to hear you're going through this. You are amazing, and you don't deserve this treatment at all, it's hideous. On a practical level make sure you look after yourself and spend some time out of the house if you can. And get a grip of the finances as soon as possible especially if you have a joint account so that you have some control of what's happening. This sounds a bit like coercive control to me... Take care.

I’ve spoken to palliative care team as well as the nurses who come, so people are aware that my situation is difficult. Thanks for your reply. It is a comfort.

It's been literally months since I've been on here  but I hope DaisyD22 that life is beginning to treat you better. My own hubby got through the surgery wel but things heading wrong way again now. I hope you are doing ok yourself .

Hello. I’ve requested friendship to chat more. Hope you are ok xx