I have been find it hard to talk to my wife after her brain operation, and she is on Kemper meds, I am doing this alone, she had her op end of June this Year, She now has quite a short fuse before her Temper starts, once she gets in that state of mind, she will not come out of it, and I do not know how to handle this anymore, I feel like I am not coping with this.
Hi chickenman
So sorry to hear about what you are both going through. I wonder have your wife had a needs assessment and you a carers assessment - see https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/social-care-and-support-guide/help-from-social-services-and-charities/getting-a-needs-assessment/ to get started,
<<hugs>>
Steve
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