Very scared, partner has pancreatic cancer

Sorry to hear what your both going through , my husband of 30yrs  got diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in Nov last year , we are on the 2nd course if chemo ( 2x 6 courses every 2 weeks ) so slightly different from your partner , we have been told after this round there will be a Ct scan & depending on results 3 weeks of radiotherapy & then fingers crossed surgery, the wipple procedure? It’s so hard we had so many plans , kids grown up , grandkids now & we were just starting to do things as a couple again , holidays , days out etc , so I know exactly how you are feeling , can’t plan for next week never mind next month/ year , we don’t go anywhere, chemo knocks him sidewards for over a week & then it all starts again x always here if you need to talk or vent xxx 

Thanks for replying - he was in hospital last week (for a new stent) then I've been settling him back in. We met with the consultant on Wednesday who confirmed it's cancer, confirmed it has spread to the main portal vein and maybe liver, so it's inoperable. He's too jaundiced for chemo right now so we are getting that under control and then it's one day at a time, as he keeps saying. Fingers crossed your husband can have surgery xxx

So so sorry to hear this ! Yes that’s all you can do is take one day at a time ! Stay strong & im here if you need someone to talk to & just to let of steam !! Xx 

Hello

So sorry to hear your sad news

Sending you love and strength