Knowing what to say

Hi Jackie.  So sorry to hear about your sister.  And it's not a stupid question at all.  You just want to help your sister.  Maybe for now the best thing is just to be there for her.  Let her cry, let her talk.  It is all so new and raw for you all right now.  Can your sister talk to her medical team about support.  At the bottom of this page on the right hand side is a 'Get Help' button.  It takes you to another page where you can find information about all the different help and support MacMillan can offer, including a section on getting the support you need when you feel you are not getting it or you can ring Macmillan Support Line  on 0800 808 00 00.  I know that they will be able to help you and may be able to help you find some local support.