Dads gone went so fast

So sorry to hear your sad news. Your Dad is now at peace and you haven't wished him away at all. Try to remember the good times at this sad time.

So hard to deal with, sending my best wishes and love xx

Oh so so sorry.  Telling someone we love it’s ok to go is an act of bravery and love... sometimes it’s exactly what they need to hear (if indeed they hear it, which we don’t know.). In hospice they often recommended that you say it.  Sometimes we might feel the end of their pain will also be some kind of release for us...release of the constant worry and concern and sadness for what they’re going through.  Of course then sometimes the finality of death makes us realise that no matter how hopeless we were still hoping while the person was still with us, and that door slams shut.  Please do take care.  There is no reason for guilt... just sadness.  All best wishes to you.