My dad is to advanced for any help it's all happened so quickly couldn't even do a full turbt operation to stop the gross heamaturia we have hospice at home all this in 6 weeks from fist blood in sample .. I'm carer for both my parents .. all ask me for answers .. loads I need to ask but never get chance .. or time ... dad memory as got worse with this and he is forgetting he as cancer thank fully so trying to hide how poorly he is is so hard any body going threw this ... advanced bladder distant metastatic lungs and elsewhere
Hi
sorry to head about your dad and your mum. I see you have had some replies with some really good advice in the bladder cancer group and hope some of that helps to get you some of support you need so that you can keep looking after both your parents without it getting all too much.
<<hugs>>
Steve
