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“Getting a cancer diagnosis is extremely stressful, and that brings a whole load of emotions, and lack of sleep certainly does not help. I think many of us have periods of insomnia. I experienced a long period of not sleeping. I could go off to sleep quite quickly, but after an hour I would find myself wide awake again, and would spend the rest of the night getting frustrated because I couldn't sleep."
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Gill ATW, I think these internal conversations are quite normal. People tend not to mention them. A few months ago I had a conversation with my dad who died in 1986. It was in the late evening. I was completely sober, not under significant duress but just 'felt' that he was sitting on the settee opposite me. It was not a spooky event, more a result of a strong imagination. Nevertheless, the chat lasted for about 1.5hrs and was uplifting, with a tinge of sadness.
I hope you can find a better way to contact your medical specialists. The hospital here does not seem to have email addresses either. About 1 in 10 phonecalls will get through to someone in 20 minutes or so. Often, that rare success is a secretary who announces that the specialist in question is busy but she will pass on a message. If you are exceptionally lucky, they phone back when you are not sitting on the throne or driving. xxx
Imagination is a powerful thing. When I was facing a painful procedure I imagined one of my dogs standing next to me, and actually talked to him (I had warned a bemused medical team). It worked. No tears, no hysterics. These apparent sounds of my not being alone are more reassuring than scary.
I am constantly frustrated by not being able to contact the hospitals. Even when I am there, they don't have time for me to ask questions.
Just a quick pop in to say hi. Didn't really get any sleep to speak of over night and the trauma was a bonus.
Then helping Stressy to snorkel through detritus of backed up drains and picking up a myriad of bits of glass from his lane to attempt to avoid yet another puncture.
Ooh apologies to those already nauseous! I hate it but was encouraged to fight travel sickness from very early age.
After my surgery and attempting to eat and innards rejecting the notion, I was convinced internal stitches might go ping!
probably the cup of tea hence not for under your pillow
Ok must attempt to make a spider web top for tonight's Halloween covers bands charity gig outing... if my foot allows attendance.
Cheers
Ah, cup of tea ... on my phone, I could only see the tea, not the cup. Unfortunately I can't access this site via my PC with the big screen as I have been logged out and my password isn't working any more.
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