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Alan likes a spam fritter which are rare these days.
Tomorrow we've got to take Alan's Dad to hospital for a bladder laser ablation. They can only do half the normal time due to his frailty. Last time he was quite distressed after it and I wonder if it's the right thing to do, but even though I have a power of attorney for him it's not my decision to make.
I hope you are all staying cool in this latest heatwave.
H
Poor dad in law, Helen. I hope it won't be uncomfortable for him as neither of you would want to see him in distress
Have you had a go at making fritters lovey? They couldn't be worse than my attempts at the burgers and no, I'm not staying cool. It might have to be the trotters in a bowl of cold water routine xxx
You tried making a request in your local chippy? There is nothing like a good chip shop and it is devasting when it changes hands, converts or just closes,.and I am a vegetarian!
So traditional beef dripping frying is out.
At the time of my gastrectomy I lived two doors away from my chip shop. Cheese patty and chips I honestly didn't know what I would be able to eat post surgery (all happened quite quickly) but afterwards in the early days I would go in for 5 chips.
And I would share those with the dog and parrot, keeping chip shop tea tradition alive
Cheers
Awe... do you think he has capacity to make decisions or make his views known?
Is he the sort that will just go with whatever the 'experts' recommend?
Take care
Evening Shimmer
Aye lass, I've asked in a few chip shops and was told it would contaminate the oil/dripping so that was that. My quest for my craving will have to be shelved.
That's so kind of you to share 5 chips, but did you really have a parrot or are you having us on? I just love those birds xxx
Awe... do you think he has capacity to make decisions or make his views known?
Is he the sort that will just go with whatever the 'experts' recommend?
Alan spoke to him about it this afternoon, and he did seem to remember the last time but he will just go with the flow. I don't think he has the capacity to decide. Him and Mum just thought he was going for a check up until I made her get the appointment letter to check.
If he were my Dad I think I would say enough is enough now. He'll be 96 next month.
H
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