Awake and up all night

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Are you having trouble sleeping?

Sleep problems may be caused by how you’re feeling emotionally, or as part of the side effects for cancer treatment. If you find it hard to have a good sleep, you’re not alone. The Online Community is here to support you 24/7. 

“Getting a cancer diagnosis is extremely stressful, and that brings a whole load of emotions, and lack of sleep certainly does not help. I think many of us have periods of insomnia. I experienced a long period of not sleeping. I could go off to sleep quite quickly, but after an hour I would find myself wide awake again, and would spend the rest of the night getting frustrated because I couldn't sleep."
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  • Hi  I also had 6 cyles of chemo and found that I bounced back quite quickly, maybe I was lucky. My last round was delayed by a week as my white blood cell count was low. 

    I hope you get through the last of your treatment ok.

    H 

  • I am waiting for an operation to remove a tumour and then 4 weeks of radiotherapy. From the sounds of it you are elderly like me and Gill. Gill is a carer for her OH she will tell you herself about him. I have not had chemo myself but my son has. Sending big hugs to you and your lovely family. I am sure your daughter has been a great support to you.xxx

  • Afternoon all 

    Today's pic is from Bergues, our last overnight stop. It was once an abbey.

    H 

  • Beautiful Helen. I love your photos.xxx

  • OH completely wiped out. Had bad leg rash reaction so they refused hers as well. Either someone said on here or I read it somewhere that after chemo you're 'Closed for Maintenance '.

    Your body is doing a lot of work processing the chemicals. Totally natural how you're feeling. Rest and treat yourself to nice drinks and snacks. Don't fight the tiredness. Just rest.Loads of love Ukiboy..

  • Sending hugs and love back to you.xxx

  • Looks so lovely it makes me want to got to France! Xxx

  • I love the 'closed for maintenance'.

    I have not experienced chemo but I have fibromyalgia and fatigue is the norm.

     Fatigue is not  tiredness, and an early night, fresh air etc will not zap it away. It's more like when your phone goes into battery saving mode. Only essential functions work and even they may be a bit clunky.

    Your body is busy with other stuff. It can come as an unwelcome new experience to discover you are not as in charge as you would like to be and that a bit of extra effort makes no piffling difference.

    Hard if you are used to being a busy person or are the person in charge or relied upon.

    We might also consciously or subconsciously judge how well we are by how much we are getting done, how close to 'normal' we can keep things.

    Pointless expending some of the energy we do have trying to find energy we don't have, or fretting about it ... but when has logic reigned? Joy

    Take care

  • Hi Soc and Sbird

    Soc i wish you best of luck for your operation im sure you will be fine. I had mine 4 months ago, 6 hour op gallbladder taken and part of my liver, my scar has healed fantastic. Its my war wound. I had gallbladder cancer. Im 58 and disabled with fibromyalgia and endometriosis but prior to being diagnosed December i worked full time and also carer for daughter and grandson. My husband daughter and grandson have been amazing i thank god for them every day.

    Chemo is scarey its cos its the unknown i suppose, and anxiety plays a part i think and mine has been horrendous. Its comforting to know there are people on this site in the same boat so to speak and can understand what you are going through. 

    Cancer can be such a lonely journey. Would be lovely to chat to you all xxx