Breast cancer treatment and career choices

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I wanted to share my story about the impact cancer had on my career and also hear from other women about their experiences and decisions around work during and after their breast cancer treatment. 

I was diagnosed with bilateral breast cancer at 41 and I decided to continue working throughout my treatment - besides the time I took off to recover from my mastectomies, and then breast reconstructions. At the time of my diagnosis, my son was 2ys.  

I am an academic researcher which means my post is funded by research grants and is not a permanent one.  My role allowed me to work flexibly during my treatment and I was not given any teaching responsibilities during that time.  Being able to work flexibly allowed me to continue working, which was a lifeline as it gave me purpose and escapism during a difficult time.  In the long term though I felt penalized and ejected from the team.  Chemotherapy and then the hormone suppression therapy and Letrozole caused considerable brain fog and fatigue, which meant I could not work as hard or to the same standard as before and even though I managed to meet my deadlines and achieve objectives, I did not keep up with the networking and continuous planning for the next project which is necessary for being a researcher.  I later realised that even though my line manager was on the surface encouraging, they were not including me in any future project proposals and when my current contract came to an end this was the excuse for me becoming redundant.  

Other than allow me to work flexibly, I couldn't find any opportunities for further support in the university, such as being linked to other researchers who had the same experiences, or advise on career choices.  After contacting HR I found that even though there is a wellbeing service available to staff, no other staff member going through cancer has approached them for support, something I found both interesting and of concern. 

With so many women being diagnosed well before retirement age, I found that information specific to women in professional careers is sparce, especially in relation to navigating the impact of induced menopause.  I'd love to hear how other women in similar situations have navigated the impact of cancer treatment on their careers and ability to carry out their role, what decisions they've made, for example whether to retrain or change roles, and what support they have received from their employers or team.  

  • Hi  and a very warm welcome to the online community which I hope you'll find is both an informative and supportive place to be.

    I had already retired when I was diagnosed with cancer so didn't have to make the same decisions as you. 

    I hope some other group members will be along soon to share their career choices with you.

    While you're waiting for replies, it would be great if you could put something about your diagnosis and treatment to date into your profile as it really helps others when replying to you and also when looking for someone on a similar pathway. It also means that you don't have to keep repeating yourself. To do this click on your username and then select 'Profile'. You can amend it at any time and if you're not sure what to write you can take a look at mine by clicking on my username.

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  • Hi ChrisPM,

    I have just seen your post, aware it is 5 months ago I decided to reply as I was going through some of the same concerns this morning. I do not have an answer, more of a suspicion there is a considerable gap in acknowledging what it means for a woman undergoing breast cancer therapies in her 40s and induced menopause on career - especially given how far pension age is and current legislation, it can really negatively impact any chance of earning a living pension.  Have you found out more on whether there is some support or what gaps have you experienced in the system?
    A little about me: I am in an absurd situation, considering I had just left my job to take some time off before moving to the next - and literally few weeks after I left I was diagnosed with cancer. I am only at surgery now, still waiting for what comes next, the only things I am sure of are:

    1- it is not going to be finding a new job any time soon (I think it is unrealistic while going through RT chemo H therapy and who knows maybe another operation)
    2- I also know I am unlikely to be able to go back to my job in data analytics/strategic management consultancy - it is mentally intense and fast-pacing
    3- Had I not resigned I also know I would have not been able to keep my job in a top tier consultancy firm

    Regarding HR I know from being part of several EoY committees that unless the company has alternative roles they would be prone to let people go. And often there are often no roles that would suit someone undergoing such impactful treatments,  i.e. low stress, multitasking, not fast-paced.

    I would love to hear how you are doing and your experience and of course I do hope you are recovering well!

  • Hi Llld,

    thank you for replying to my post and sharing your story.  Fingers crossed I'm doing OK so far and the only challenges I'm facing are coping with physical and cognitive fatigue but that has hugely improved over the past year.  It is definitely a long journey to recovery!

    From looking at your profile I saw you are waiting for test results at the moment?  How are you feeling after the holidays?

    I can totally understand how finding a new job is now at the bottom of the list. It sounds like the timings of the cancer diagnosis might have answered some of the questions arising when firstly diagnosed for you, like do I keep working or not.  In one sense I was quite lucky because there was no fear of being let off at the time, even though my health definitely had a huge impact on my career progression.  I found the first stage of the journey with waiting for a diagnosis, confirming my treatment plan and surviving chemo, surgery and radiotherapy as a whirlwind, and having my job was very grounding and keeping me sane.  I understand how lucky I am to have that choice.  Looking back, I'm not sure that was the right choice however, as choosing to go on working meant I had less time for self-care but it was during covid so everything had stopped and my options for doing things were very limited, so work was the only thing I had fro stop me from being taken over by the cancer diagnosis.  It is very different now so in that sense, you are absolutely making the right choice as all your energy can go into looking after yourself, and doing things that can improve your wellbeing and recovery.  I think I had concentrated too much on physical recovery and completely neglected the emotional recovery that needed to happen, but I still can't 100% say what the right answer is when it comes to working during treatment!  

    When I was diagnosed I looked into the literature to understand what my options were, but most importantly what other women's experiences were.  I wanted to know how will the treatment impact my ability to think and do my job, but nobody could answer that for me.  My mistake was that I was looking at what other women were doing rather than trying to understand what was best for me, and the fact that every person's experience of cancer is different might play a role in the lack of tangible support for women who want to continue doing what they have always done.  I got in touch with my employer's HR and staff wellbeing service, and even though over 10 people each year take time off for cancer related treatments, - so the overall number of staff with cancer must be significant - none got in touch with the wellbeing service, and there are no support systems to help people with cancer at work.  With many of us having spent a significant part of our lives getting educated and working in professional roles I think its demoralising when employers expect women to abandon everything they've worked for just because they're facing challenges because of breast cancer.  

    Having cancer was tough, but having to reimagine myself as something other than what I always was, was so much tougher I think.  So I guess in relation to your second point, over time we do adapt to our new circumstances, and you'll be surprised what your brain can do if you chose to go back to a similar post!  

    I hope sharing a bit of my experience has been helpful and I'd love to hear more about your thoughts on this.