Hello ladies i am new here
I have just been diagnosed with grade 1 breast cancer which was a big shock and made me really emotional at first but my nurse explained everything and I was ok after that, she explained about the surgery and the possible treatment I will have but also said I am quite young to have it (age 30) so I would be having genetic testing followed by the option to have my eggs frozen
I am so confused about the whole thing I just feel like I’ve been bombarded with so much information and I don’t know what decision to make! Do I even need to freeze my eggs? What if I don’t? Will I be able to convince naturally? How much will my fertility be affected????
I look forward to hearing back from you guys as I just don’t know what to do and would love some help and advice
Hi LivvyLoo
I didn't have to make this decision but noticed that your post hadn't had any replies yet. Responding to you will 'bump' it back to the top of the discussion list again.
Hi Livvy,
Sorry to read about your recent diagnosis - it's so much to take in, especially at the beginning, I fully understand how you feel being bombarded with information! I had bc in 2021 when I was 35 and was offered egg freezing before I started chemo. In the end, I didn't do it because the timing was all wrong. By the time I'd waited for my initial appointment, I was at the wrong point in my cycle and doing the egg freezing would have delayed the start of my chemo by a few weeks and at the time I was too scared of my cancer to delay anything. During chemo I had monthly injections to shut down my ovaries in order to try to protect them from chemo which put me into a temporary menopause. At the beginning of next year I will have a full fertility check at the hospital, so for now I'm sorry but I don't have an answer to your question. I have a friend who had bc when she was 23 and she went on to have two children naturally, so it can be possible, but each case is different.
It's hard to suddenly have to make a decision so quickly on something you know nothing about but could affect the rest of your life. I hope you manage to do whatever feels the right choice for you and wish you the best of luck with everything xxx
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