Hello all,
I hope this is OK to post as it isn't about me. A very close friend disclosed to me today that she may have inherited BRCA genes from her father. I am not sure of all of the ins and outs as I wanted to let her share her story in her own time. I have promised to go to the hospital with her for her appointments as she hasn't even managed to bring herself to disclose to her husband and children yet (it's very new news) and I wondered, if anyone has any tips on how I can best support her? She is worried she might not take in all of the medical appointment details so I've offered to take notes, but are there any questions I should make a note of to ask, or other advice anyone has? I am reading as much as I can about it and will let her talk and open up at her own pace, but I want to make sure I am the best possible support to help her through this. Thank you for reading.
Hi
I was diagnosed with the BRACA 2 gene 5 years. Inherited from my father. My sister and paternal grandmother had died of ovarian cancer and my other sister had breast cancer as I now have. Thankfully my sister with breast insisted on the genetics testing. She is BRACA 2 and so I could. ! of sons has been tested and he was negative. My other 2 sons are making there own decisions. For me it has been an involving journey. The genetics team have been great and still are.
The hospital will be very supportive and from what you say she hasn't yet had the genetic testing. It really is just being there and listening. It is her journey and she has to to take her own steps and decisions.
This site is very helpful and supportive.
All the very best and it sounds as if you are doing the right things.
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Thank you for the reply. It's very helpful. I hope your journey continues smoothly.
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