My husband died in my arms on the 2nd May (2009) - what happens now?

Morning all , Hi fiona , i want to thank you all for last night i enjoyed a bit of light hearted humour too , i've got the kids coming for dinner (3 kids , 3 partners 3 little grand kiddies ) so probably wont get chance to log on much today , had to cook 2 chickens (watch out Kaz) will catch up with you all later , i really dont know what i'd without this site and you lov ely people .. Have a good day everyone
best wishes Lynne xxxx

Afternoon everyone

I`ve done a mountain of ironing and just been to the gym. Getting good at passing these difficult Sundays!!!

Ailsa I`m on facebook, think I need to request you as a friend to send messages so will do that and give you my details if you want to add me?
It`s awful here too compared to yesterday, crazy weather

Have a good day everyone

Helen xxx

hi, Helen
very impressed with your day so far - would you like some more ironing? When the weather was nice this week I washed anything that didn't move; regretting it now as it all needs ironing!!
sue x

Hi Sue

No thanks lol!!! Still some in the basket, might tackle it later!!

Helen xx

Hi everyone. Believe it or not I was daft enough to wash curtains! Ironed round one this morning but now I need to tackle round two! Why do I do it? I hate ironing as well. That said - I am on my holidays so maybe a small glass is permissable and will make ironing seem less of a chore. I was driving last night so I missed a Saturday night treat. I am going to Meadowhall tomorrow with an 8 year old! Take care everyone. Ailsa xx

Morning everyone xxx

Getting used to being off and not setting the alarm!!!

Ailsa hope you got your curtains back up, seems a good idea at first doesn`t it?? Have a good day today, what`s Meadowhall?

Daughter is back tonight, she texted yesterday, she`s having a great time. I`ve survived the weekend without her, son has been around more than usual, went shopping with him yesterday for a few bits. Not sure if he`s been around on purpose with Nat being away or pure fluke but it`s been nice xxx

I`m meeting up with a friend for a few drinks this afternoon, she used to be the landlady of our local and her and Paul did `Monday club` where they would meet for a few drinks and a chat while I was at work. He used to look forward to it even though he wasn`t drinking and quite poorly towards the end but it got him out and he would make himself go. I`ve met her once since Paul died so going again to keep his `Monday club` going this afternoon. Might not make it on here this evening after a few drinks!!!!

Hope everyone else is ok

Helenxx

Morning Helen,
One more week before I go back to work but I am going a bit loopy being at home all the time...have a lovely day kaz xxx

Morning Kaz

I know I needed to get back to work once the funeral and all arrangements were over. It wasn`t doing me any favours sitting round the house thinking. Was getting really down. I was tired when I went back but it has made me appreciate the holidays so much more.

Think of any bits you need to sort before you go back then you don`t have to worry

Helen xxx

Well the kitchen needs plastering, bathroom needs tiling, two doors need changing, hall needs painting,curtain pole needs to go up,wardrobe door has fallen off. etc etc etc. Cant I just go back to work xxxx, kaz