So how is everyone doing ?

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It's been a quite week on here, so I thought I would ask how are you all doing ?

I am week 10 so early to some of you. Another hard week for me. I did manage to go round Alnwick Gardens where we used to go about once a month to see the changes. I cried all the way around pretty heavy at one stage. I sat near where I have a lovely picture of her with the cherry blossom out.  Put on my i-pod and played her final song. I have actually had two ready meals this week and I got a sausage sandwich after the walk around. I ate it but did not taste it.

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  • Hi first post for me. Well it’s week six for me and it feels worse each week I have our cat to look after which gives me some purpose but feeling very confused and lonely I know I’ll need to try and get a routine going but it’s so hard without my darling wife best 30 years I’ll ever had can’t face doing anything really my tears flow every day

  • Hi, sorry for your loss. I am sorry to say we all know what you are going through. 33 years of marriage, which I would not swap anything for. It is very hard and at the moment I can't honestly say it get any easier.  I am currently in counselling which helps for me. A safe space where I talk about Sue and feelings of guilt and just been able to talk about everything helps. I even smile when a good memory pops up. All being well I am going to try a bereavement coffee morning.  I don't know if I am ready for that yet ,but I am going to try. I wish I could say the right thing to you. Just try and look after yourself.