I've thought about this for more than two years now and wonder about how so many of us could do this.
I have the diaries from throughout the experience and often wonder about copying the comments and then reflecting upon them with my own thoughts and feelings - then, as vivid as they still are, and now reflecting upon them.
My worry? Two 'children' would find out what some of the real facts were in what 'we' went through! More worryingly, what their mother went through the last night at home if I was to be truely honest about it all. There is much I have kept to myself.
I do though think it would be of benefit writing about it all - for myself and all of us who could relate. Finding a publisher is another matter but, I sense, I could find one over time.
Anyone else had similar thoughts?
Take care,
WDJ
Morning WDJ,
I haven't thought of writing my own, but i think it is a good idea. Our own story would be fairly short, but I have read a couple of books around women in cyber security, where they get a handful of pages each to give their story. I wonder if that would be feasible?
Knowing what I know now, I would certainly buy a copy, just to see what others went through, and may show us all that there is a lot if commonality.
If, however, I got is at diagnosis time, I would read it, and wonder how I would cope. Turns out like all of us, we are stronger than we think.
I think amazon do a self publishing thing, even if it is just a kindle version. Get high enough in the charts and you might be able to get a publisher to take it to physical form.
If you chose to write it good luck. I didn't take notes in a diary, but a lot of it is still very much fresh in my head
My wife kept a diary with the support of WOW (written/verbal/visual) of her journey from diagnosis to the final days of her life she used Substack to document her experiences
Wimp that I am, I'm not yet ready emotionally to read everything she recorded
After a poor experience with a oncology nurse she also got involved in a project addressing how the poor choice of words can impact on a person/patients experience.
Its in YouTube KPOW ( Know the Power Of Words)
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