You couldn't write this!

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My husbands funeral is tomorrow.  Apart from a catastrophe of errors just to get to this point, such as the crematorium being closed for refurbishment and the funeral directors not being manned due to sickness!  I woke up this morning to BT digging up the entire street, I kid you not, the entire street, I have barriers and open gulleys in front of my house!

What, I mean what!!  How the hell do we leave the house with any dignity, let alone the bloody cars get through.

I just, I mean, what!!

I'm undecided as to laugh or cry - I just can't believe it 

  • Hi Realale welcome to the forum. Im wondering if a Scream scream Scream It might feel better. Unbelievable but what do you think hubby would have made of it all? Would he have laughed or cried? I can imagine that that is not the send off you had intended to arrange. Laugh and scream all at the same time. Will be thinking of you tomorrow xxxx

    gail

     
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  • Oh Realale 

    I am so sorry that you have this to contend with at such a horrendous traumatic time.

    I think I would as Gail says, I’d scream, then cry then laugh. 
    Then probably cry again.

    My beautiful Valen’s day went in a blur of tears and laughter. 
    Horror and wonderful memories shared. 
    Surreal and all too too real.

    I’ll be thinking of you tomorrow xx 

  • Sending you warmest wishes to get through today. Will be thinking of you.