Hi beginning of last year my husband was diagnosed with non hodgkins lymphoma, i spoke to ac lovely man in her and he talked me through what to expect , it really helped someone knowing how my husband was feeling . He coped well with rchop , he was tired after but he had a condition called Hypertuitism which he got tired with plus the steroids were v stopping him sleeping at night .
In November David rang the bell , we were over the moon , he was still getting tired but not as bad , thought it was Hypertuitism , beginning January he had an adrenal event was admitted to hospital but we had to be in casualty for 14hrs , thru kept him 4 days then let him home but he had ac scratchy throat he was really poorly went to GP he did it was infection , gave him antibiotic by the night his neck was so swollen back to A& E , THEY COULDN'T believe GP hadn't sent him in the morning to be checked , we stayed 14hrs in A&E again, they admitted him again , that was 17th Jan , 19th Jan they said he'd picked up corona virus from A& E , We're devastated following day i tested positive so no visiting x
They then break the news Cancer is back with a vengence , he ends up with feeding tube they risk Chemo as he's so poorly , lots more went on but 15th February 10 days before he was due for retirement he passed away , it's coming up to 6 months and i miss him so much, we'd been married 45yrs and we did everything together i never went out on my own after bad anxiety a few yrs ago , he was my strength x
Everyone says I'm coping well I've managed to get bus twice on my own , i see/ speak to our family every day but i just ask David to come for me every night it's always been him and me .
