My husband died

I have no words.  

I lost my father last week. I take comfort in the idea he is sending me little signs but the pain is unbearable. 

Take it one hour at a time. 

Sending love x

 Im so so sorry for you and your loss. I had a similar experience when I lost my mum so completely understand your shock and pain.

You won't process it for a while, as for Xmas I don't even have words for you other than you absolutely did what you could. I'm sorry..

Do you have any support? My words probably aren't much comfort as I'm a mess myself but I just wanted to say something. 

Here to talk when you need. Rest if you can and take it minute by minute however you need to. 

Sending love and strength x

What can anyone say to your post.   Here is my try, grieve, cry, as I am sure you are I did for months and even now four, years later it hurts.  But what would your husband say to you,  I can only repeat what my wife of 30 years said to me, LIVE, do you honestly think he would wish for you to be miserable, we need to live to keep them alive.  I talk to my daughters about their   mum , I talk to my new partner about Adele , we , I celebrate a life that although cut short was worth living. As is yours, live it.