Loss of my wife

1. Hi Andrew we are all different but I had the same apprehension aswell we put some of Lynne's sshes in family plot and recently scattered some with her mums on both occasions it was better than I would have imagined being with family and friends who loved Lynne and having a meal after talking about her although I had some bad moments it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be so all the best hope you get through it ok  terry

Thanks very much 

Hello Andrew,

I worried about this too before my Lin's ashes were interred but I handled it much better than I thought and, like Terry, we went somewhere after and reminisced about LIn over drinks in the local pub. I was far, far less emotional than at her funeral. So hopefully it will not be too hard for you on the day.

I have had more emotional moments since then on certain anniversaries etc.

Best wishes,

Derek

I was thinking about that ,about going to a pub for a drink and raise a glass or two in memory of Jean with the family  thanks so much