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Scattering the ashes

Trixieone
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My husband passed away nearly 6 weeks ago and it was his wish for his ashes to be scattered along his favourite river.

I was fine with this until a few days ago when I realised I couldn’t do it just yet. It feels too final and too soon. 

Am I wrong in not complying with his wishes?

  • in reply to Trixieone

    I agree,

    Immediately after the funeral I contacted the royal navy to organise ashes at sea service for ex sailors. Covid restrictions meant I would have to delay...  now I am so pleased I couldn't do it at the time because I would have regretted it.  

    I get comfort knowing he has accompanied me to my new home and is with me always ♡♡

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