The terrible loss of my soulmate

So true its like a tornado has came and disrupted your whole life i lost my darling husband over a year ago now everyday is a struggle but i keep fighting  for my children as they cant see me crumble x stay strong and remember the life before cancer

Firstly I am so sorry for your loss, very difficult to move forwards but with family there is always support and hope for the future. My daughter and I were told by so many of our friends how brave and strong we were at the time and even now 3 months on. You find the strength from deep within because no one could do it for us, a forced position that we wish we never had to experience but life is moving on, slowly and carefully for us. Take care Kikko and thanks for reply.

Hello Hillside,

I am so very sorry for your loss and glad you have found this group where we all understand because we have gone, and are still going, through a similar situation.

It sounds like you were a very strong team throughout this terrible journey with her cancer. And, you know, I think it is important for our loved ones that we are positive from diagnosis till the end - of course not everybody can do that and that's understandable - but, when we can do that, we are really great support for the ones who are receiving all the horrible treatments and have to go through all the side-effects and so on. So well done on being such a huge support!

And I am glad you and your daughter have such a close bond which no doubt will help you to cope with this situation.

Over time it will get easier but right now it's early days. You need to take good care of yourself and give yourself time to grieve this major loss.

Love, Mel

Thanks for your reply, like you I won’t be moving on just as you say, moving forwards, one step at a time.