Dreams..

Hi Pooka

I didn’t hear Jeremy Vine. But I do know that in the early days after my husband died, our younger son said that he was dreaming about his dad almost every night. He’s in his thirties and lives in the States but he and his wife did manage to spend a memorable two weeks here in august when Chris was still relatively well although he’d had a terminal diagnosis.I’ll admit, I would love to dream about Chris but can understand that waking up must be so devastating. 

Sending hugs

Jane

xx

Hi pooka 

With me it's not actual dreams that I have it's more thoughts before I drift off to sleep in the early days it was all bad remembering the last week before he passed but then I became better memories things that he would do or say I think it helps that I still use his deodorant like air freshener in the bedroom i have had to replace it twice but it makes me feel closer to him in a weird way can't see me stopping it unless they stop making it 

Happy dreams kate xx

Evening all, 

Funny you should be mentioning dreams cos I was just talking to someone about this very thing just the other day. I have always had very vivid dreams and we used to laugh about how nonsensical and bizarre they were. 

Anyway, since losing Gary I dream about him most nights and they are pleasant, lovely dreams. I wake up feeling almost happy even because I’ve been with him. An ex is always in the dream too. A dream analyst would have plenty to say about that I’m sure!! 
 
I like to think it’s Gary letting me know he’s ok.

Peigi xx  

Hey all,

I was just thinking the other day of how interesting it is that in the beginning I didn't dream of Paul at all except for once when it was so real that I stretched out my hand and was sure I would be able to feed him there beside me. And now, maybe in the last six weeks or so, I have dreams with him in it and it's really nice and doesn't upset me in the slightest. I think that I can now dream about him where as before it would have been too painful to do so.

Best wishes

Mel