Fiancee passed away last year

Hello you have come to the right place sometimes just sharing pur thoughts and fears is a big step forward .You have had a rough time of it and to your credit you seemed to have coped really well .If you feel you need more support then seeking that is an important  step forward .There are many organisations out there the Macmillan helpline ,Cruse and as you mentioned you are ex forces SSAFA is also another avenue to go down .We are here for you we talk about everything and support each other to people who really understand .Keep posting and take care x

I am so sorry for your loss. And I am glad you've come to this group where we all understand because we have gone through a similar loss amd

nd we all understand and are here to listen.

We are all grieving in our own way and grief is not linear; so I think it is normal to cry, sometimes more and sometimes less. I, for example, didn't cry at all for the first couple of weeks and then couldn't stop crying for weeks and now I okay Asian Lee find myself in tears but certainly not as much and I lost my husband A little over two years ago. Just be gentle and kind with your grief journey. After all, it isn't long ago that she passed away.

it is so very sad because it was so early in your life together and you should have had a lot more time. It was the same for my husband and me in the sense that we met when he was 59 and I was only 27, we had eight years together, got married only in 2015 and found our own home in 2016, and then his health started to decline and from then on words our journey was dictated by cancer. It is so sad when we have only a little time together. But, like you, I think that it is great that it happened fast for her and that she didn't have to suffer through the current situation particularly when you say that you think she may have caught the virus.

if you feel you need more support then this forum, please reach out and get help. There is help out there from Macmillan or other counsellors or therapists. Sometimes talking is simply what helps. and please come on here and share as often as you like.

warm wishes from Melanie

My wife passed over a year ago I feel sad every day cry a lot but I think it's a way of releasing your pent up pressure I miss her all the time as she went very fast with cancer in all her bones also I think if it happens so suddenly we must take longer to come to terms with it here is a good place to have a rant and get it off your chest 

Hi

My husband died 8 months ago. He was an ex services man. He also had PTSD. We found the RBL really helpful when he was diagnosed and they offered me help afterwards as well as practically before he died.

His regimental friends have also been a good support. I was never married to him as a serviceman but they still all help. 

Alison xxx

Hi, I lost my wonderful husband just 6 weeks ago & the lovely people on here have been very helpful & kind. 

I am not coping at all, spend most days in tears. I’ve now started phone counselling with Cruse. If you ring their helpline they are really lovely to talk things over with & will give you options of help they can offer. I also have a weekly phone call from a lovely supportive Marie Curie nurse, we had their nurses come for the last 4 nights of my husbands journey. They truly were angels at a horrendous time. 

I hope you find something to help you & send a virtual hug. X