Lovely topics today on an insight into how every one is dealing with their loss.
I have read every thread.
The next thing i will have to think about is my husbands ashes, i know what he always asked me to do if he went before me and we used to joke about it.
Take some of me back to Florida to the warmth and scatter me on the water's edge, i always said i would as we spent a lot of time going there on holidays , and i could get a holiday from it., but as i have cancer i will not be fit to go .
The other scatter some on the M25 as he spent half his life there, was a HGV driver that part i do not think i can do, so in a bit of limbo.
The kids have said keep him here till its my turn and we can go together, have to get my thinking cap on.
Have been looking on line at roses and they have one called Tom so will be ordering one so i can see it bloom in the garden .
Take Care Ellie xx
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