I sadly lost my husband 5 years ago he did not have cancer. We had been married for 46 years.
I took the plunge and met my close friend a widower on a dating website. We had a lovely 2 months and then he became ill. He was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer.
His daughters all lived abroad and sister in the north of England, I then became his Carer and took him to all Hosp appts, shopping, washing etc.
I did this for him as we both felt something for each other. One of his daughters came after he passed away and unfortunately did not want to meet me or involve me in anyway although I was thanked by text. I do not know what happened in friend’s family but as far as I am concerned that was nothing to do with me.
This very hard.
