Hello,
My 13 year old son's dad (my ex husband) has just been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer that has spread to liver and lungs. He's 58.
We are divorced however remained good friends co parenting our wonderful little boy who idolise his daddy.
I suppose I am in search of advice how to navigate this with my son. We are going to tell him today.
In some kind of cruel twist of fait, the very same day he received this news I was with my 80 year old mum receiving the news her lung cancer is terminal and she's got months to live. The poor boy will lose two family members to cancer at the same time.
Please does any one have any experience of child bereavement, specifically the loss of a parent.
Hello Emma
I am sorry to hear that your son's father and ex partner has had a diagnosis of cancer. I am also sorry to hear that your Mum has also had a diagnosis. I can only imagine how difficult this is for you.
I will pop a link here for some information that you may find helpful.
Talking to children and teenagers about cancer | Macmillan Cancer Support
We do also have the Support Line available from 8am -8pm daily if you feel that you want to talk things through. They can also have a look at what support there may be in your local area.
I found Cruse helpful and they also have plenty of resources that may help.
Home - Cruse Bereavement Support
This is understandably a difficult time for you and we are here if you need us.
Jane
