My friend Emma

## Celebrating the Life and Spirit of My Friend Emma

Today, I want to share with you the story of my incredible friend Emma—a woman whose strength and vibrant spirit left an indelible mark on everyone who knew her. Emma was the strongest woman I have ever met. She had a way of lighting up a room, often dressed in the most colorful clothes, adorned with beautiful head dresses that celebrated her heritage, much like the African ladies she admired. Her passion for life was infectious, and she thrived on socializing, filling our lives with laughter and joy even during her toughest times.

Emma faced her diagnosis with an unshakeable spirit. After hearing the heartbreaking news that she had only months to live, she remained resolute. “I want one last Christmas,” she declared. And so, what began as a somber invitation transformed into a joyous occasion—30 of us gathered at the local pub for “Emma’s Christmas Party” on September the 9th where we shared a festive dinner and exchanged gifts. It was a celebration of life, love, and the incredible woman we cherished.

But life can be cruel, and Emma’s health took a rapid downturn. She had so many dreams, including a much-anticipated trip to Turkey with her beloved mum, Nikki. I watched with bated breath, hoping she would make it onto that plane, but the reality was harsh. For the first time, I caught a glimpse of defeat in her eyes, a stark contrast to the vibrant woman we all knew. Cancer was relentless, consuming her from the inside out, leaving behind painful reminders of its toll.

Yet, in the spirit of Emma, she made one last appearance at the pub, a bittersweet gathering that made my heart ache. It was there that I realized how much I wished I could have hugged her a little more, kissed her a little harder, and begged for just a little more time together.

Eventually, Emma was moved to Ashgate Hospice, a sanctuary where she received remarkable care during her final days. The staff there went above and beyond, ensuring that Emma felt comfortable while supporting her family through the unimaginable. They treated her loved ones like their own, fostering a sense of home as they sat by her side, honoring every moment she fought.

When Emma passed, we celebrated her life in true Emma fashion—a vibrant farewell filled with love and laughter rather than tears. In a grand tribute to her spirit, her ashes were transformed into fireworks and launched into the sky, lighting up the night in her honor. No funeral, no sorrow—just a celebration of the extraordinary woman she was.

One of Emma’s most remarkable legacies is the eBook she wrote while battling cancer. It was her desire to share her journey, to inspire others who might find themselves in similar battles. Emma believed that writing could connect, uplift, and provide hope. 

Despite the immense grief I feel after losing her, Emma left me with a precious gift: her mother, Nikki. Our bond has blossomed into a wonderful friendship, strengthened by our shared memories of Emma. I promised to look after Nikki, and in doing so, I know Emma is with us, watching over us, ensuring we continue to support and love one another.

Thank you for allowing me to share Emma's story with you today.  Emma may no longer be here in person, but her spirit, strength, and love continue to inspire us every day.