My dad died just over three weeks ago. It was his funeral yesterday. I can’t believe I will never see him, talk to him, laugh with him, hug him, dance with him, walk the dog with him again. I miss him so much. Will this get better? Does it get better? I love him so much. We all do. I need him back here, with us. Silly comments, but I‘m just so sad.
Oh Franniefanakapan. I hear you. This time last week, we had just got my dad home from a horrendous 8 weeks in hospital. 2 days prior we were told he had days left so it have him home was bittersweet. Tomorrow morning will be a week since he left us. I hope this does get better because right now, it feels pretty bleak.
I'm sure your dad, wherever he is now, is taking care of you from afar and may that keep you warm tonight.
Sending you lots of love xxx
Thank you. I hope he is still here somewhere. And big hugs to you, sorry for the loss of your dear Dad too. xxx
I feel your pain. Saturday made a week that my dad passed on. We all thought he was doing well, and then he declined so rapidly. Now he's gone. It's so surreal. I know he is with us in spirit, but there is such an emptiness. It hurts so bad.
So sorry for your loss!
And so sorry for your own loss. I hope the feelings of sadness and loss get better in time. I worry they might not. Hugs, all. xxx
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