Loss of a loved one

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I’ve lost my best friend’s dad early Monday morning who I was very very close with. Unfortunately he had many different cancers, finding out only 5 weeks ago. I’m emotionally struggling, and still can’t get my head around losing him. I’ve been off work and can’t seem to stop crying. I’m currently helping the family plan the funeral and really need some support. TIA

sistermoon over 1 year ago

Hi HaWi

I'm sorry to read about your best friends dad's death. It must be especially hard due to the fact that he has passed on in such a short space of time. The shock of him being well, to passing 5 weeks on is difficult to comprehend. It also makes us see our own mortality and the fact that we are all here for only a short time.

It is very early days and it is perfectly understandable that you are trying to show support but that you are struggling yourself. After the funeral it may be an idea to see your GP and to request bereavement counselling. There are also charities that may be able to give you support. I will list these below.

Cruse bereavement care www.cruse.org.uk

Cruse bereavement care, Scotland www.crusescotland.org.uk

At a loss website directory www.ataloss.org.uk

Best regards

A x

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