Feeling so lost since my wife died from pancreatic cancer on the first of February this year

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I feel  so lost without  out my wife.realy don't  want to be here .but made my wife a promise  that I  will carry on being the person she made me into. But it's getting  harder  every day. My daughter  and my wifes family  are  keeping  an eye on me .keep  feeling  like the  hospitals failed  her 

  • Just remember, you have a daughter who needs you. You will be her whole world now that she has lost her mother.  I lost my mother last September and she was let down many times because of lack of money in the NHS. Not enough resources sadly I believe she was betrayed by a system that has been starved of investment. But I must remember her brightness and joy for life when I feel sad. Thankfully you have your daughter I hope you can find the strength to be strong. I am very sorry for your loss. Losing your life partner must be terrible. So very sorry.

  • Thank you. She is from  my first  marriage  .she actually  said to my wife  you have  been  more of mum than my real  mother  .that nearly  broke sue down  to tears .

  • Take care both of you. Together you will find strength in each other, somehow. Life is very hard sometimes.

  • I lost my wife last week she battled hard for 4 years since diagnosis I thought she might win but she didn’t we had been married for 46 years and she was my sole mate I don’t know how I will cope I have a son who is very supportive