Hello,
I have posted on the bereavement group once before. It is coming up to eight months since i lost my beautiful mum. I honestly miss her so much…i have such a feeling of physical pain…it hurts so much and i know the void that I have will never ever be filled. My Mum was the most beautiful woman you could ever meet.
I guess i’m posting on here because I feel like I really do need some help/support from people who are in the same position as me and maybe i can help someone too in some way.
Sending you all much love condolences and prayers xx
Hello
They say that time heals, but not sure that is true. Maybe times just makes you better equipped with the emotional tools to deal with things better.
I lost my dad this March and it still feels so surreal. At the moment I concentrating my efforts on looking after mum. This is my way of coping. I know I am probably not really facing up to things directly but its helping me for now.
Its a strange feeling when losing someone becomes like a real physical pain.
Here if you wanna chat
Eddie
My deepest condolences, I truly am sorry for the loss of your Dad.
You hold on tight to your Mum, looking after her is such a privilege, I bet she feels blessed to have you.
I know no words or advice will make your pain go away. It’s very strange isn’t it…not having our parents/parent.
Do try to do something for yourself too though even if it’s something simple like a nice walk, reading a book or something. I know I never did I did have some counselling which didn’t ease the pain but it was nice to talk about Mum with someone who didn’t have any emotional attachment I got it through work
You take care of yourself.
Movita
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