Hi,
Not sure what if Im in the right group or even what Im doing.
Lost my amazing dad on the 13th May, medical cert said Metastic Cancer of unknown source.
My dad wasnt ill, slight stomach upset for a couple of days and then issues breathing. His GP gave him steroids and antibiotics thinking it was a chest infection but over a couple of days he got worse.
She then phoned him back after 4 days and sent him to the Hospital for a scan, we took him into the OOH assesment unit and they did bloods etc, they came back abnormal. And admitted him. My dad was put on 3 types of antibiotics and fluid drained from his abdomen. But he never got any better. And passed away in his sleep on the Friday. Only 3 days after he was admitted. The Dr said agressive cancer in Liver, Lungs and Kidneys stopped functioning.
I didnt know cancer could hit that quick, we had no warning signs he had been healthy right up until that stomach issue. Just felt so lost and wished I culd have done more, made him see a Dr sooner. Or insisted on scans etc. We had no time at all.
Xxx
