Loosing my mum at such a young age

Dear Jodie

Im not young by any means. However losing a loved one devastates us all. And when it happens age truly isn't  that which defines us. I have no guidance for you although some find counselling helpful. I just let the process of grief work in its own way. I allowed myself to cry - sometimes howling like a wolf-  as well as just looking into space feeling totally numb. The rest is just going about ones life zombie fashion until one day some kind of meaning enters into our being no matter how small or insignificant. Bereavement is a slow, painful and gradual process to experience and no expert in the world has a magic cure. I've been bereaved for just over a year and although I function in this world I know I'll never be the same person. Yet a person who can survive and who knows, finds another worthwhile future.

Love and Light

Geoff 

Hi Geoff

thank you so much for your words, I can really relate to the zombie like fashion at the minute. Nothing compares to the pain of loosing a loved one!! I do hope that one day I do find happiness again and that my future will not be as dark and sad as i am thinking it will be. I am truly sorry that you are suffering as I am, I wish you all the best in your grieving and healing process

jodie xx