Recent passing

I’d just like to say how sorry I am and give you a virtual hug for everything you’ve been through. My mum died when I was pregnant with my second child, and it is such an emotional wringer to lose your mum with a tiny baby you know will need to be taught about your mum rather than know her themselves. I am so sorry, it is brutal and you must feel so raw and in shock right now with all of the conflicting emotions you are going through and trying to process the see saw of the joy of your new baby with the heartbreak of your mum dying.

You are doing brilliantly; just keeping going for your children as that truly means everything right now and is a testament to your mum and the bond you have. It sounds clichéd but they will guide you through your worst days, even if at times you are pushed by grief and the demands of young children. Lean on people whenever you need to (including here). Grief and looking after young children can be exhausting, so don’t feel afraid to ask for help to rest or do whatever you need to do. Take each day or hour at a time. Your Mum’s example and love will guide you. Love never ends x