We go today and even though Dad's is adamant he's not having the radiotherapy until he's sat in that room with the oncologist telling her then I guess anything could happen and he might say let's do it.....
We were told the cancer is aggressiv...
Dad's Pet scan was clear but the drs wanted to do more tests,hunting round in his throat and mouth to search for the original site but Dad says no .He's decided he doesn't want radiotherapy ,he can't face it and we go see the oncologi...
Had the first oncology appointment today basically told the cancer was stage four ,three lymph nodes involved,not primary and containers squamous cells....
Long rotton story short,radiotherapy will be shit,lots of awfull side effects and no guarante...
You couldn't make it up Dad decided hed cut the garden hedge....why FFS...normally hed do it ,but he's got cancer,he ain't himself after the surgery and plus he's not sleeping and even before the cancer his heart af made him knackered...
Today I go with my Dad and Mum to see the Ent and chat about the path results.We know already ,because the consultant called on Tuesday to let Dad know the cancer isn't a primary...give him and us time to digest the news...but today we'll kno...
