Sad and scared

  • How Do You Stop Time

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Dad came home today from Willen hospice. He was there for 3 weeks and didnt want to spend any more time away from mum so they put things in place for dad to come home. The docter said he just has weeks left. I suppose it dosent help if he hasnt eaten for 3 weeks but we cant force him as it would make him uncomfortable. Dad is a fighter and Im so proud of him. it would be the best thing in the world if dad could make it…

  • Dads Bithday

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    What a beautiful day yesterday. Dad even phoned me yesterday to find out when we were coming in. We bought him balloons and presents. He got up and even managed a bath as he has been so weak but it took it out of him. it was so nice to have tracey with us and i feel dad perked up as Tracey came and it was his birthday. He had sleeps in between  and we couldnt leave the hospice as dad is very weak. We even got a cake but…

  • WHAT A ROLLER COASTER

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Just an update on dad. He went into hospice last monday and by friday he wanted to go home. The docter didnt want him to as he was still very ill. So we respected his wishes and took him home but on Friday night hewas sick and up most of the night bearing in mind he has not slept for 5 days and they have given him so many pill and he is still fighting the sleep. He is so exhausted. Dad decided after the docter came out…

  • Am I doing the right thing

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    dad was brought into the hospice on monday morning.He has not  had any sleep for the last 4 days. They brought a specialist into speak to him as he has alot of stuff going on in his head and doesnt want to worry mum or me. Last night they gave him 4 sleeping tablets and an injection. still no sleep. i think he is too scared to sleep as he thinks he is going to die and no one is around. I think we are going to take him home…

  • How many more tears can you shed. Please dont read if it upsets you.

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Poor dad has been so brave but has been bringing up black stuff. Not sure what it is. He took a sleeping tablet last night to help him sleep but was up most of the night. I dont think mum has had any sleep. I phoned mk doc last night and they were going to admit dad to the willen hospice but dad was comfortable and i didnt want to stress him out. So I think he will be going in today. Maybe he just needs some restbit and…