My wife has had surgery, chemo and radiotherapy for breast cancer. She is now in her 2nd of 5 years on tamoxifen. She is having all the predicted side effects and she finds it very tough.
I find it tough too in a way. Because she doesn't want a physical relationship with me she won't touch me, or allow me to touch her. It hurts most when we are with other people and she is happily tactile and affectionate with…