Looking after Jay

  • Do I think about the future?

    This seems to be where my worry lies.  There’s lots going on in the now which needs attention. Cancer at this point in time is all absorbing. I think and wonder about our future and I don’t think they are concerns I can really share ...
  • Radiotherapy is vile

    Jay managed to get a few weeks of recovery prior to starting radiotherapy.  Every day for 30 days which from what I can gather is a lot.  We’re a little over half way through. Soft food quickly shifted to liquidised food to liquids on...
  • How it started

    Jay was diagnosed with aggressive parotid cancer in December 2025 after being investigated for several months. First biopsies were reassuring “not cancer” was said. False sense of security rolled out, then when it came to removal day, sur...