17 months......and still counting

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FormerMember

16 Sep 2010

Hi....its been 17 months now since i lost my partner Jools (Julian). I dont know why but over the past month or so, every thing is so raw again and i feel as though i am starting the grieving process all over again. I thought i was doing so well.....getting on with my life. putting the past behind me, looking forward. Now all of a sudden, its slap bang in my face. I am finding it hard to function.............everything is such a tremendous effort.............and those blasted tears keep falling. Trouble is after 17 months people dont seem to understand.....as up to date i have held myself together. Has anyone gone through the same.....................anyone got any words of wisdom.................

Kathryn x

FormerMember over 14 years ago

Thank you every one, your messages mean the world to me..........it makes me feel better about the way i feel...and that its still ok to feel like this. Special thanks to those of you who have just recently lost a loved one, but taken the time to reply to my blog. I send you all hugs xxxx May we all get through this together !!! Kathryn xx
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FormerMember over 14 years ago

Hi Kathryn

I'm sorry to hear that the sadness has returned.The emotional wave keeps churning and takes time to settle.They say time does heal a broken heart ,but in some cases it may take that little bit longer !The emotion your going through is quite natural and only people who have experienced that situation will fully understand how you feel.The support of your friends can ease the pain,they are there for for you!!!

Big hugs!! and let us get through this together !!

Alan xx
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