so sad,,,,

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I always feel like im moaning on here, but  i think we just having a really bad time at the moment , another really bad night ,we slept on sofa together till about 11.30, then went to bed but hubby is waking up every hour which i knew so will try sleeping tabs tonight, but what i didnt know is whats going round in his head which i could have guessed, but is fear , he admitted it to our macmillan nurse today,while i was their, he also said he had no quality of life which i also knew but was so hard hearing it , i dont know how i kept it together,anyway all meds doubled again , this is happening almost twice weekly now, but it never seems to help for long, also may be oxygen needed but will see gp tommorow, its so hard seeing hubby so depressed , i am normally so positive but when macmillan nurse left i just went upstairs and cried and cried, i couldnt stop , ive now given myself a headache and feel awful , and hubby now peacefully sleeping but he could tell id been crying, he just gave me a funny look and smiled ,well that started me off again , so i left to pick kids up , so i now have to try and pull myself together for the next time , i just want him to be comfortable , thats not too much to ask , and to all you ladies on here that have been supporting me, thankyou , i couldnt get through this without you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Jenni

    I can't be any help as I didn't go through what your going through but please remember that I am thinking of you.  You are being incredibly brave.

    Love and hugs Stacey xxxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Jenni

    I remember when my hubby first admitted that he felt there was no quality of life left - it breaks your heart because there is nothing to say in reply.  My love and thoughts are with you.  

    Judi x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Jenni,

    It is an awful feeling to know how bad they feel about their situation and for you not to be able to make it better.

    I have been in your situation and found it so heartbreaking. All I can say is you are doing your absolute best, you are there for him and beside him and that takes immense strength.

    You can't do more and your husband is so grateful you are right there with him, I know mine was.

    This is the most difficult thing in the world to go through and you may not think so but you are doing so well. Don't think your husband shouldn't see you cry sometimes, proof positive of the love you feel.

    I wish you all the strength you need to get you through this awful time.

    Love Grace X

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Jenni, you are incredable, I moan but at least my girls are grown up with children of their own to worry about, so Peter and I can keep a calm atmosphere around the house.  He's more calm than I am at the moment though, morphine's a wonderful thing.  

    What have you done today to make you feel proud?  You've been you!!!

    Cherryl xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Jenni, you're doing the best job supporting Ju.  I wish there was something we could do to help you, but we're all here for you and you can moan here all you like, we really don't mind!

    Sending you a big hug.

    Marsha xx