how insensitive can you get ?

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well what a week, ups and downs, mostly downs to be honest, well yesterday was the final straw, my pregnant best friend and work collegue came for lunch bringing home made soup , lovely i thought really  looking forward to a bit of me time ,well she arrived very upset, one of my so called friends and work collegue had told her my hubby only had 2 weeks to live !!!! well i hit the roof , how dare they discuss my business , especially if its not right, we may only have a few weeks but 2 weeks has never been said even to us ,let alone some busy body deciding , i decided then and their i am now not going back till afterwards , i cant be dealing with that, hubby is to important to me , but i dealt with it , she wont be talking about me again !!! i havent told him im not planning on going back yet , just said i need some time off as i cant concentrate , which is true , he doesnt want me to lose my independance , but will talk to him soon , i think deep down he knows its only because i love him and want to be here for him ,

Any way whilst this was all going on i was running around doing shopping and sorting his meds out , went to chemist and nothing their ,so went to surgery, and his dr was amazing , he was free so invited me in while he sorted meds out ,hubby was meant to be going for an appt but wasnt well enough , so he sorted that out as well, did script for more antisickness meds as thats still not under control ! and then asked me how i was! he was so lovely , i cried, and he talked and listened ,even stuff about funeral ect that i havent talked about, and the fact its very hard for me as i konw what is going to happen because of my job , im qualified to do palliative care but its very hard when its your husband , and hes so young , he didnt mention how long but he did say the next couple of weeks will be very diffucult !!!  so i left feeling very sad, but glad id spoken to him ,and hes not even my dr , all meds sorted ,home to cook dinner , then as promised 7 pm dr did home visit , and also rang me this morning  and will speak to me again on mon ,

Had mother in law this morning, was ok, his dad is here now , which is also ok as long as doesnt stay too long, sister in law still hasnt rung , so thats good ! apparantly my little boy was in tears at football and said it was because hes frightened, but hes off with a friend at the moment hopefully having fun as theirs not much of that here , and as for me , im just hoping the rest of the day is as peaceful and quiet as it is now , touch wood pain relief now seems to be working ,

 

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Jenni - we are all here sending you love, support and the best vibes we can. xxxxx

    Judi xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    hi jenni, just to say my love and thoughts go out to you at this very trying time, two fingers up to the gossips they couldnt lace our boots lol thats what i say when people start, they havent a clue.  I have a lovely dr too, love n hugs to you all.

    Jill

    x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    jenni, just  a short line how nice of the dr to listen ,and consider you. take care love sharon

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Jenni,

    Our love to both of you and the family. Do what you want to do babe and bugger the rest of the world!

    Andrew & T xxxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    dear dear jenni so sorry to hear you have been upset over other peoples remarks

    but i am sure they were not "gossipping" about you and your hubby- i would think they are all concerned for you all - some things said by others and repeated can get a bit twisted and out of context - not intentionally of course just a slight mis word here or there can sound awful!

    i think you are making the right descision to stay off work at the moment - not only to be with your hubby but also to help lift the load off yourself for a little while ....... hope it eases your strain a wee bit

    standing beside you babe - along with your other macland friends

    xNx