Shock and disbelief he's gone

Jayne,

I can't imagine the grief you are experiencing and wouldn't dare offer advice or pearls of wisdom, nothing can prepare anyone for the loss of a partner.  I wish I could reach out and hug you but all I can do I hope you find the strength to get to a place where memories of your darling husband make you smile and not cry.

Peace be the journey for your husband.

Debs xx

((((((hugs))))))

xNx

Wish I could hug you right now Jayne, and forgive me for thinking you had a daughter!  I echo what Debs says, and hope that in time your memories of Shaun bring laughter and not tears.

Much love, Marsha x

I am sooooo sorry Jayne that you have lost your hubby. I wont say that time is a great healer, because i dont believe it is!!!!!  In time you will begin to accept it, rather than get over it. I understand your feelings of not wanting to get up in the morning or wanting to go to bed at night. I still find some things so hard to do.......putting the tv on is one of the worst. My advice to you, is just take one day at a time, and be kind to yourself. Dont be afraid to give yourself and your son a treat every now and then.......your hubby wouldnt want you not to. He will always be there with you, maybe not physically but always in your heart and thoughts. I send you a big hug and cuddle from my heart. lots of love xxx

A huge hug to you Jayne

Maria